The media is concerned about the rising cost of the “golden and noble” girl in the village

In the eyes of urbanites, naked marriage is not new. Today, some rural areas in China are still constrained by the high cost of marriage. This huge economic pressure has become an inexplicable pain in many rural families.

“In the past, to spend a few tens of dollars on a doll, it took more than 100,000 yuan now. The truth is not moving!” In the past few days, the reporter found in the survey that rural young men and women are still topics that cannot be ignored. .

One daughter-in-law took more than 100,000 yuan

Zhaojiasi Village, Shoule Town, Ledu County is a remote small mountain village. Most of the village’s surplus laborers are flocking to the city.

Xiao Zhao has been working outside for many years and has been in his twenties. With the help of relatives, he met a girl from a neighboring village last year. After many consultations by the families of both parties, the two finally received a marriage certificate. Not long ago, they had a banquet and were considered to be married. However, after the marriage, the family had spent more than 100,000 yuan. Xiao Zhao’s parents did not have a long time for their sons to complete a happy event. He took a motorcycle and went to the county seat every day to find a job. Because the money borrowed from relatives and friends should be refunded sooner or later.

Xiao Zhao’s father took an account: When the child got married early, watching a woman, buying gifts, renting a car, etc. cost him thousands of dollars. The matter has become clear, and the confirmation ceremony is worth 120,000 yuan. Later, there were three daughters of the new gold (gold necklaces, gold rings, gold earrings), three sets of clothes, cosmetics, household appliances, etc., it is estimated that it will cost two or three million. Afterwards, family members have to spend money to hold a wedding banquet, at least a dozen tables, 400 yuan per table, tobacco and alcohol should also be more than two hundred yuan, all add up, but also one or two million. After counting down, Xiao Zhao married a wife and spent more than 150,000 yuan.

Although Xiao Zhao is the only son in his family and earns some money overseas for many years, his parents worked long hours and accumulated some money. After all the money was summed up, he still borrowed more than 60,000 yuan to complete the pile. marriage.

From "three to one ring" to high-end appliances

Compared with Xiao Zhao, Xiao Yan is suffering. Born in Dawei Village, Yurun Town, Yudu County, Xiaoyan was admitted to college. After graduating, he could not find the ideal job. He could only return to Ledu County and work in a small factory. Seeing to be thirty years old, the marriage has not yet arrived. The reason is that the woman’s request is too high.

Before getting married, the woman usually needs "three rings and one ring." “Three turns” is a sewing machine, bicycle, and watch; “one ring” is a tape recorder, but it is a dual card. But now, the other person must first see if your house is newly built and can not afford a car.

“When I went to college, my family owed a bond of ass. How can we get married now?” Seeing a real girl, Xiaoyan had to give up on marriage and decided to marry several years later.

In an interview in the past few days, the reporter learned that high-end consumer goods are favored by young men and women in rural areas. Marriage is not an issue, and people are uncomfortable. Many people often measure cars, fully automatic washing machines, LCD TVs, and computers. These household appliances, which were previously only visible in the cities, are now also found everywhere in the countryside.

Most of the elderly in the village think that the children are now spending too much money on marriage. The children of a farmer’s family with normal family conditions have been unable to breathe for years. "Now the children are married, it is simply awful." This is the heart of many elderly people.

Why are rural marriages expensive?

People in the city married their daughters not to mention making money. Some families also tried to think for the men and reduce their burdens. They often had a situation of “posting stickers” and only hoped that the two could live a happy life. However, why do rural women have to spend so much?

One of the factors: Climbing than psychology

“People’s dolls have spent 80,000 yuan to marry, and it will cost less to marry my daughter.”

"We managed to pull our daughter up and spent a lot of hard work. If we don't have more than one salute, we can't get it."

"Marry once in a lifetime and don't spend money on relatives."

In the interview, many women's parents made this point. The high price of marriage in rural areas is a big factor in psychological comparison.

The second factor: girls are getting more and more gold

Girls who came out of the countryside rarely return to the mountains again. Those who met the world outside, do not want to give their lives to men and land. When reporters visited some mountain villages in Ledu County, they learned that many girls went to work in the city after graduating from junior high school or high school, and they rarely returned to their homes. Rural girls are getting more and more gold. Even if they are married and married to other villages, they will no longer be able to serve their in-laws and cultivating their fields. The newlyweds will go out to work with their husbands for a short period of time.

Facing this situation, Zhang Dezu, a professor at Qinghai Normal University, believes that the phenomenon of poverty due to marriage and debt due to marriage is not uncommon in the countryside. The relative number of women of marriageable age is relatively small, and there is a part of it flowing out to the ground. This phenomenon is particularly prominent in rural areas. Coupled with the mentality of comparison, making marriage more and more expensive. Marriage should go hand in hand. Marriage is a major event in a man's life. Weddings are planned according to their own economic ability. While not burdening their families, they also want to make their own future married life quality and minimize each item. economic burden.

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